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Good for youI watched my parents divorce and it took years, many, many years - for them to be in the same room. Now they have moved on and are so much happier - the best part is that they can be friends and my children have both grandparents at every occasion. The only person who knows when the anger hits, how hard it hits, how vicious it is and how long it sticks around is the person who is angry - more than 75% of the time the person instigating the anger is oblivious to it - so the tragedy lies with the person wasting their time holding onto the anger. You can do it - no-one is worth more to you than you!!!

You can do it.This can be tough, I have seen my sister work through it. I think she has pretty much let it go and has forgiven him. She is much happier with herself for mastering her emotions (on this point anyway) and has a better self image now that she does not have to carry that baggage. Her conversation used to include her anger towards him, and no one likes to hear that, especialy after several years since he has been gone. She rearly talkes about him now, and when she does it is just "matter of fact".